The Disappearance of Eleanor Rigby: Them (2014)
A New York couple's relationship is tested after the loss of their child. This film is the wide-released combination of the original two :him and :her volumes that premiered at the Cannes Film Festival.
What people think about The Disappearance of Eleanor Rigby: Them
The Disappearance of Eleanor Rigby: Them is special because it treats grief not as a plot device, but as a shifting weather system—quiet, relentless, and different depending on where you’re standing. Ned Benson’s New York feels lived-in and hushed, and the film’s power comes from watching Jessica Chastain and James McAvoy play two people who still love each other but can’t quite reach the same emotional language anymore. It’s a mournful, intimate drama that finds originality in perspective and restraint, letting small gestures and silences do the heavy lifting until the feelings land with real weight. If you’re looking for neat answers or cathartic melodrama, it may feel too subdued, but if you want beautifully acted, adult storytelling that sits with the hard stuff honestly, it’s quietly devastating in the best way.
The Disappearance of Eleanor Rigby: Them is aiming for an intimate, adult look at grief and a marriage coming apart, using a two-perspective concept reshaped into one linear cut. The problem is that in this combined version, the very thing that made the project intriguing can feel diluted: key emotional beats are withheld or smoothed over, so the story can come off more distant than devastating. If you want a clear, deeply probing relationship drama that earns its catharsis, this may feel a bit hollow and frustratingly opaque. Still, Chastain and McAvoy do strong, restrained work, and if you’re patient with quiet, moody scenes that prioritize atmosphere over answers, you’ll find moments that land.
Cast
Jessica ChastainEleanor Rigby
James McAvoyConor Ludlow
Bill HaderStuart
Viola DavisProfessor Lillian Friedman
Isabelle HuppertMary Rigby
Ciarán HindsSpencer Ludlow
Nina AriandaAlexis
Jess WeixlerKaty Rigby
William HurtJulian Rigby
Ryan EggoldGuy from Club
Jeremy ShamosEvangelist
Nikki M. JamesSia
Wyatt RalffPhilip- BBrendan DonaldsonCasimir Waiter
Daron StewartGuy Walking on Bridge
Julee CerdaNurse
Sasha EdenCoffee Truck Barista
Johnathan FernandezBar Fight Guy
Crew
- Director
- Ned Benson
- Writers
- Ned Benson
- Music
- Ryan Lott
- Cinematography
- Christopher Blauvelt
- Editing
- Kristina Boden
Details
- Released
- May 14, 2014
- Language
- English
- Studio
- Myriad Pictures, Unison Films, Kim and Jim Productions
- IMDb
- tt3729920
