My Mistress (2014)
After the death of his father, a 16-year-old boy struggles with anger and instability, distancing himself from his mother. His search for escape leads him to a lonely dominatrix living nearby, a woman accustomed to giving and controlling pain. Drawn to her world, he seeks both solace and love, while she finds herself pulled into a bond that neither expected but both need.
What people think about My Mistress
My Mistress is special because it treats grief and desire with an unusual tenderness, finding a wounded, intimate coming-of-age story in the last place you’d expect. Stephen Lance directs with the confidence of a promising debut, giving the film a sleek, sunlit visual polish that contrasts sharply with the characters’ inner storms, and Emmanuelle Béart brings a magnetic presence that makes every quiet glance feel loaded. The vibe is moody, sensual, and surprisingly gentle—more about the ache of wanting to be understood than about shock value—letting the relationship unfold with a careful, melancholic pull. It won’t be for everyone given its provocative premise and emotional rawness, but if you’re open to a thoughtful romance-drama that’s willing to sit with discomfort and still reach for compassion, it’s a compelling watch.
My Mistress is clearly aiming for a raw, taboo-tinged grief drama about a teenager latching onto an older woman’s world of control and pain as a substitute for stability and love. The problem is it often feels like it’s flirting with provocative material without having the nerve or insight to really interrogate it, so what should be emotionally dangerous can come off as oddly safe, clichéd, and a bit sleazy. The pacing is subdued to the point of dullness, and the story doesn’t build to a particularly satisfying emotional payoff, which may leave you wondering what the point was. Still, Emmanuelle Béart brings a weary magnetism and there are moments of quiet melancholy, so if you’re in the mood for a restrained, mood-first drama rather than a deep or daring exploration, you might get something out of it.
Cast
Crew
- Director
- Stephen Lance
- Writers
- Stephen LanceGerard Lee
- Producers
- Leanne TonkesStephen Kearney
- Cinematography
- Geoffrey Simpson
- Editing
- Jill Bilcock
Details
- Released
- November 6, 2014
- Language
- English
- Studio
- Mini Studios
- IMDb
- tt2622874











