The Story of Us (1999)
After 15 years of marriage, Katie and her husband, Ben, have grown apart. While they keep up the facade of having a contented marriage, mostly to not worry their children, they aren't happy together and argue frequently. While the kids are away at camp, Katie and Ben decide to separate and try to reassess their relationship to see if they should stay together or split up for good.
What people think about The Story of Us
What makes The Story of Us linger is how it treats a long marriage not as a fairy tale that failed, but as a living thing—funny, bruised, stubborn, and still capable of surprising tenderness. Rob Reiner stages the push-and-pull with a light touch that lets the comedy sting and the drama breathe, while Bruce Willis and Michelle Pfeiffer bring the kind of lived-in chemistry that feels less like “movie romance” and more like two people who know exactly where the other person’s buttons are—and keep pressing them anyway. The vibe is candid and adult, full of sharp talk, rueful laughs, and those quiet pauses where you can hear the years between them, so if you want escapism or a glossy rom-com, this may feel too raw. But if you’ve ever wondered how love looks after the honeymoon glow fades, it’s a bracing, oddly comforting watch that earns its emotions without cheap tricks.
The Story of Us is aiming for a bittersweet, relatable look at a long marriage hitting the wall, mixing bruising arguments with warm nostalgia and the hope that love can be rebuilt. The problem is it often feels more like a polished “relationship highlight reel” than two real people in pain, with sitcom-y devices and a tidy trajectory that can make the emotions land soft. Bruce Willis and Michelle Pfeiffer are both watchable, but their chemistry can feel strained, which matters when the whole movie is basically just them circling the same fight. If you want a messy, honest marital drama, this may feel too safe and scripted; if you’re in the mood for a glossy, midlife rom-com drama with a few sharp observations and a comforting tone, it might do the job.
Cast
Bruce WillisBen Jordan
Michelle PfeifferKatie Jordan
Rob ReinerStan Kogen
Colleen RennisonErin Jordan (at Ten)
Jake SandvigJosh Jordan (at Twelve)
Julie HagertyLiza
Rita WilsonRachel Kogen
Paul ReiserDave
Red ButtonsArnie Jordan
Betty WhiteLillian Jordan
Jayne MeadowsDot
Tom PostonHarry- CCasey BoersmaJosh Jordan (at Two and a Half)
- DDylan BoersmaJosh Jordan (at Three)
Ken LernerDr. Rifkin
Albert HagueDr. Siegler
Michael ChapmanWaiter
Jessie NelsonRealtor
Crew
- Director
- Rob Reiner
- Writers
- Alan ZweibelJessie Nelson
- Cinematography
- Michael Chapman
Details
- Released
- October 14, 1999
- Language
- English
- Studio
- Castle Rock Entertainment
- IMDb
- tt0160916
