Used People (1992)
At her husband's funeral, Pearl, Jewish mother of two divorced and antagonistic daughters, meets an old Italian friend of her husband, whose advice years previously had stopped the husband leaving home. For 23 years he, now a widower, has secretly loved Pearl.
What people think about Used People
Used People is one of those grown-up romantic comedies that sneaks up on you: it starts in grief and ends up finding laughter, tenderness, and the stubborn human need to begin again. Shirley MacLaine gives Pearl a bracing, lived-in intelligence—funny without mugging, wounded without begging for sympathy—while Marcello Mastroianni brings an old-world sweetness that makes his devotion feel less like a plot device and more like a gentle force of nature. Beeban Kidron lets the Queens family chaos play like a comedy of nerves, where every sharp remark and odd coping mechanism is also a love language, and the writing keeps finding unexpected grace in the mess. It isn’t for viewers who want a breezy, sanitized romance—death, dysfunction, and a couple of PG-13 edge moments are part of the texture—but if you like your laughs earned and your warmth hard-won, this one’s a small, generous surprise.
Used People is clearly aiming for a warm, old-school romantic dramedy about grief, second chances, and messy family ties, with Shirley MacLaine and Marcello Mastroianni bringing undeniable star power. The problem is it often confuses “quirky” with “forced,” leaning hard on bickering ethnic-family stereotypes and obvious dialogue that can make the emotions feel prepackaged rather than earned. The romance is meant to be tender, but the chemistry can come off muted, and the movie’s heavy subplots (including suicidal-risk situations and some sexual content) sit awkwardly beside the sitcom-style squabbling. If you like sentimental, stagey character pieces from this era you may find it charming in spots, but if you need naturalistic writing, consistent tone, or a romance that really sparks, this one may test your patience.
Cast
Shirley MacLainePearl Berman
Marcello MastroianniJoe Meledandri
Bob DishyJack Berman
Jessica TandyFreida
Kathy BatesBibby Berman
Marcia Gay HardenNorma
Sylvia SidneyBecky
Doris RobertsTante Lonnie
Helen HanftAunt Ruthie
Maria Rosaria RussoTheresa- IIda BernardiniAunt Louisa
Irving MetzmanUncle Al
Lee WallaceUncle Harry
Joe PantolianoFrank
Charles CioffiPaolo
Emma TammiYoung Bibby
Louis GussUncle Normy
Crew
- Director
- Beeban Kidron
- Writers
- Todd Graff
- Producers
- Peggy Rajski
- Music
- Rachel Portman
- Cinematography
- David Watkin
- Editing
- John Tintori
Details
- Released
- December 16, 1992
- Language
- English
- Studio
- Largo Entertainment, JVC, 20th Century Fox
- IMDb
- tt0105706
