Falling in Love (1984)
During shopping for Christmas, Frank and Molly run into each other. This fleeting short moment will start to change their lives, when they recognize each other months later in the train home and have a good time together. Although both are married and Frank has two little kids, they meet more and more often, their friendship becoming the most precious thing in their lives.
What people think about Falling in Love
Falling in Love is the kind of quiet romantic drama that sneaks up on you—not with grand declarations, but with the tender, everyday miracle of two people truly listening to each other at the right moment. Meryl Streep and Robert De Niro bring such nuanced, lived-in warmth that their chemistry feels less like movie magic and more like something you’ve witnessed on a train platform and never forgotten. The film’s tone is gentle, bittersweet, and deeply human, finding suspense not in plot twists but in small choices, lingering looks, and the complicated ache of wanting more than life has neatly allotted. If you’re looking for sweeping melodrama, this may feel too restrained, but if you want a captivating little gem about connection that respects its characters and your intelligence, it’s absolutely worth the ride.
Falling in Love is clearly aiming for a quiet, grown-up romance about two decent people drifting into something complicated, and it wants you to savor the small moments rather than chase big melodrama. The problem is the script often feels thin and familiar, with dialogue that can land a bit flat, so the story plays more like a well-worn outline than a surprising emotional journey. If you’re expecting sharp writing, real tension, or a fresh take on infidelity and longing, this may feel like a frustrating waste of two very capable leads. But if you’re in the mood for a gentle, old-school, soft-focus mood piece where the appeal is simply watching appealing actors share scenes, it can still be an easy, undemanding watch.
Cast
Robert De NiroFrank Raftis
Meryl StreepMolly Gilmore
Harvey KeitelEd Lasky
Jane KaczmarekAnn Raftis
George MartinJohn Trainer
David ClennonBrian Gilmore
Dianne WiestIsabelle
Victor ArgoVictor Rawlins- WWiley EarlMike Raftis
Jesse BradfordJoe Raftis
Frances ConroyWaitress
Paul HermanEngineer
Kenneth WelshDoctor
Clem CasertaTaxi Driver- CChevi ColtonElevator Woman
James RyanCashier
Crew
- Director
- Ulu Grosbard
- Writers
- Michael Cristofer
- Producers
- Marvin Worth
- Music
- Dave Grusin
- Cinematography
- Peter Suschitzky
- Editing
- Michael Kahn
Details
- Released
- November 21, 1984
- Language
- English
- Studio
- Paramount Pictures
- IMDb
- tt0087233
